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The Benefits of Hobbies: Why You Should Start One Today

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Has anyone ever told you to start a hobby? Or have you gotten stuck in a long, one-way conversation about someone passionately speaking to you about their hobbies? Yeah, I know you probably weren’t paying any attention. If you are like me, you probably started doing your grocery list mentally or trying to recall what your significant others meant that morning, maybe last week, and heck, if you are even more horrible like yours truly, you are thinking, “What the heck did they mean last year?” all ways to drown out this conversation about hobbies. Today, the topic is very simple: what are the benefits of having a hobby? What’s so great about it? And since you are reading this, it’s fine by me if you pause and come back to finish reading this blog. let’s begin, Hobbies are activities that we engage in for pleasure and enjoyment outside of our work or daily responsibilities. They can range from creative pursuits like painting or writing to physical activities like hiking or dancing to intellectual pursuits like reading or learning a new language. Hobbies are important in our lives because they provide us with a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction, help us reduce stress and anxiety, and allow us to explore our interests and passions. Benefits of Having a Hobby Having a hobby can provide numerous benefits for our mental and physical health, as well as our personal and professional lives. One of the most significant benefits is reducing stress and anxiety. Engaging in a hobby can help us relax and unwind, providing a much-needed break from the demands of daily life. Additionally, hobbies can boost creativity and productivity by allowing us to explore new ideas and approaches. Hobbies can also improve our mental and physical health by providing opportunities for exercise, relaxation, and social connection. For example, active hobbies like hiking or sports can improve cardiovascular health and strengthen muscles, while creative hobbies like painting or writing can provide an outlet for self-expression and emotional release. Finally, hobbies can enhance social connections and relationships by providing opportunities to meet new people with similar interests. Types of Hobbies to Consider There are many different types of hobbies to consider depending on your interests and preferences. Creative hobbies include activities like painting, writing, photography, or music. Active hobbies include hiking, dancing, sports, or gardening. Intellectual hobbies include reading, learning a new language, playing chess or other games. Social hobbies include volunteering, joining a club or organization, attending events or concerts. Finding the Right Hobby for You Finding the right hobby for you involves assessing your interests and passions, trying out different hobbies to see what you enjoy most, seeking inspiration from others who share your interests, and considering your budget and resources. It’s important to choose a hobby that you enjoy and that fits your lifestyle and schedule. Overcoming Challenges to Starting a Hobby There are several challenges that can prevent us from starting a hobby, including lack of time, lack of motivation, fear of failure or judgment, and lack of resources or support. To overcome these challenges, it’s important to prioritize your hobby in your schedule, set realistic goals and expectations, seek support from friends or family members, and remind yourself that it’s okay to make mistakes and learn as you go. Making Time for Your Hobby Making time for your hobby involves prioritizing it in your schedule, setting realistic goals and expectations, creating a dedicated space for your hobby, and incorporating it into your daily routine. It’s important to make time for the things that bring us joy and fulfillment in life. To conclude, hobbies are an important part of our lives that provide numerous benefits for our mental and physical health, personal fulfillment, and social connections. Whether you enjoy creative pursuits like painting or writing, active hobbies like hiking or dancing, intellectual pursuits like reading or learning a new language, or social hobbies like volunteering or attending events, there is a hobby out there for everyone. So why not start exploring your interests today? Remember to enjoy the process and have fun!

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7 strategies to create and achieve your goals

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1. Identify your goals. First, identify what you want to achieve. I like to number each one of my goals; others use bullet points, etc.; it’s all acceptable. Next, use the numbered goals in my case to measure success. I found out that when I put a check next to the goal I have achieved, it boosts my morale, and I have an urge to tackle the next one. These goals can be as major as moving to another country or going to medical school or as minor as Saturday plans with loved ones or my favorite spring cleanings. 2. Make a list of your goals. I like to number each one of my goals; others use bullet points, etc.; it’s all acceptable. Next, use the numbered goals in my case to measure success. I found out that when I put a check next to the goal I have achieved, it boosts my morale, and I have an urge to tackle the next one. You can have it written down in your journal, which, by the way, I highly recommend having, or you can type it on your phone, desktop, or tablet. Any place that you know will keep you accountable for achieving these goals 3. Trust yourself to achieve your goals. I want you to list what you are good at and what strategies you’ve used in the past or are currently using that work for you. Then use that strategy again. Many times I think that in order to get the success I need, I must learn something new, whether through self-help books, friends, family, or paid specialists. I realized that I count myself out of the equation, but this is to improve or achieve a goal for myself. Why am I not in the problem-solving dialogue? I now use what works for me, and I trust myself to accomplish my goals. 4. Pace yourself and plan ahead. One strategy that works for me starts after I identify my goals and write them down in my journal. I start with what I think would be easier for me to accomplish and succeed at out of 10 goals, by the time I get to the complicated ones, I am so determined to knock them down that the goal does not scare me. I break down the goals into several tasks, usually two or three tasks, and I pace myself, giving myself days to finish the tasks. It could seem daunting to break a goal into three tasks, but I figured in order for me to walk, I need two legs. To give you a simplified idea of the act of walking, I am sure there are a lot of different components that go into it. But think about it: if you break your major goal down into smaller tasks and start on just one at a time, then the task seems less difficult and more achievable. And if you are a busy individual, this strategy will fit into your already packed schedule. 5. Failure is not the end; it’s a precious opportunity. One of my favorite quotes by author Roy Bennett is “Failures are the stairs we climb to reach success.” I am sure that we all experience failures, but what’s hard is that because we are human with emotions, failures can really wreck havoc in our lives. I remembered being very depressed when I couldn’t achieve a goal, and I had been going at it for months. The self-doubts came in, and the feeling of being a disgrace to my family and a disappointment to my teachers and friends made me cry whenever I got a chance. This was the first time that I had failed in such a major way that included my loved ones. That unfortunately drove me into depression. I remembered one of my older friends reaching out to me. I wonder now if she experienced this type of failure or saw the signs in me. She reached out to me and told me that failures are opportunities. With each failure, you are closer to succeeding. It was as if a huge weight was lifted off my shoulder, more like, off of me actually.  6. Don’t be afraid to dig deep. The most wonderful thing to experience about failure, if you are not overwhelmed with the emotions of failing at something, is the opportunity to dig deep about what could have been done to experience a different outcome. This used to scare me so much. I would blame others for things, and when I started blaming things outside of my control, for instance, lizards, yes, I blamed a lizard for one of my failures. For my sake, I will not tell you the story. But this is to point out how I would blame everything and anything because I did not want to dig deep and find out I was the cause of my own failures. After having the mindset that failures are opportunities, I made it my go-to now to dig deep because if it is my fault, I am digging deep to find a solution. It typically involves me figuring out that I procrastinate a lot, I prioritize the wrong things every time, or my favorite things to do are out of sight, out of mind. I was shocked at how reckless I was with my own goals. I had an urge to change, and it is a work in progress, but I am achieving a lot more than I used to. So don’t be afraid to get that shovel and dig deep. It will literally save your goals. 7. Celebrate your achievements and success. We’ve come to the end. This is my favorite part; it’s a celebration! Some people find it very hard to celebrate their accomplishments, and some are embarrassed by the thought of celebrating. I am here to tell you to accept how far you have come, recognize your achievements, and let it motivate you to achieve more. Set

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The pursuit of happiness

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The pursuit of happiness has always been a lifelong quest that everyone seeks in their lifetime. Society wants you to believe that it is real and attainable. But most who find it are more likely to be disappointed, if not miserable. So what can you pursue to be happy? You have to pursue meaning and purpose in your life. According to Merriam-Webster, “purpose” is the reason for which something is done, created, or exists. In other words, why do you get out of bed in the morning? and meaning is to make sense of it all. While pursuing happiness is tied in with your emotions, with how you are feeling about yourself, what others feel about you, and what you think they see in you, having meaning and purpose is more of a direction you choose to take to act out your personal beliefs and values. For instance, most parents set out a career goal for their children. The parents tell the child that this specific career will give them happiness. The child obeys and follows through on all the studies and is now a professional in said career. They arrived and did not find the happiness that was promised. The parents are obviously very happy, because it was their happiness and their own personal purpose to have their child in this profession. Now let’s change it a bit. The child chooses not to follow the parent’s purpose in his or her life. They chose a different career field, and they are very happy. But unfortunately, the parents are heartbroken. Personal feelings cannot get in the way of a person’s quest to live a meaningful and purposeful life. You might ask, “How can this scenario get a happy ending?” Easy. The parent’s purpose for the child should be to help the child find his or her purpose in life and support them. Then and only then can happiness be fulfilled. If you haven’t followed us on Facebook or Instagram, add us today. And stay tuned for more blogs at www.Mum-Kini.com.

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Avocado Toasts

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Yield: 4 servings One 8-ounce ripe avocado, halved, pitted and peeled. Fine salt and freshly ground black pepper 4 slices whole grain or whole wheat bread. 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil or unsalted butter, softened Directions: Mash the avocado with a fork in a shallow bowl until chunky and looks spreadable. Season the mashed avocado with fine salt and black pepper. Toast the bread until browned and crisp. Lightly brush the toasts with oil, and season with fine salt and pepper. Divide the mashed avocado evenly among the toasts, and top with more flaky sea salt. If you haven’t followed us on Facebook or Instagram, add us today. And stay tuned for more blog at www.Mum-Kini.com.

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Welcome to Mum-Kini Blog

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When asked, why would I start a blog when the world wide web is filled with blogs, experts, coaches, etc.? What would I offer that is different from what has already been done? My answer always was “because it gave myself and many others who seek that path a voice.” A voice for the voiceless, a place of belonging, and a supportive community I have been so privileged and blessed to have met women who have inspired me on my life journey. with the first woman I set my eyes on, my mother, amazing sisters, wonderful friends, and inspiring celebrities (not a statement that I am declaring that I know any celebrities; let’s just say I am inspired by them). My first encounter and a continual experience is getting to watch and learn from my own mother. born as the third child of a family of five. She lost both her oldest brothers through senseless crime. As a teenager, all she had left were her aging parents. She knew she wanted to have a large family and gave birth to seven children. She had six wonderful, well-behaved (at times, of course) daughters and a loyal son. My siblings were the first friends I had. Our friendship and solidarity are unmatched. We have known each other through a lot and continue to do so in our older days. This brings me to my friends. Because of my closeness to my sisters and our experiences, my friends are like sisters to me. I have adopted each and every one of them into my family, whether they know it or not. I truly believe my friends are extensions of my personality. It brings me so much joy to interact with them. I am what they call a millennial, so it shouldn’t surprise anyone how many of us millenials are inspired by celebrities and their lives. I am inspired by the humor and silliness of Marilyn Monroe. The self-confidence in Angela Bassett, The professional grace of Meryl Streep, The determination of Viola Davis, The strength of Regina King, The philanthropist of Angelina Jolie, The self-acceptance of Jennifer Aniston; Gosh, so many excellent examples, so little time. I want you to get the idea that these women are more than their beauty to me. They are all intricates pieces of fabrics woven for me to admired and strive to become.  If you’ve reached down here, I want to thank you. Not only have you spent some time reading this blog, but you now have an idea of who I am and what inspires me. Mum- Kini was created with you in mind.

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